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	<title>Comments on: How to Start a Conversation</title>
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	<description>tips for captivating, compelling, and inspirational communication for business professionals</description>
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		<title>By: Prakash</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prakash</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 11:20:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I approach it differently for men and women. I had good success with women when I listened more and kept questions short. 

For men, the more I asked the more they assumed that I had some idea on the subject and was keen to know about them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I approach it differently for men and women. I had good success with women when I listened more and kept questions short. </p>
<p>For men, the more I asked the more they assumed that I had some idea on the subject and was keen to know about them.</p>
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		<title>By: Bruce in Iloilo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bruce in Iloilo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Aug 2008 06:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two of my favorites:

How long have you been doing that?

How did you get into doing that?

You learn a bit more about their history which might be helpful and more interesting, and you get off the business into the personal which might give you more connections, such as schools, towns lived in, family, countries visited, etc.  

People like to talk about themselves, especially if it is something they are passionate about.  Such questions allows them to talk about their passion subjects, or duck the question with a simple &quot;since school&quot; or &quot;always were interested.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two of my favorites:</p>
<p>How long have you been doing that?</p>
<p>How did you get into doing that?</p>
<p>You learn a bit more about their history which might be helpful and more interesting, and you get off the business into the personal which might give you more connections, such as schools, towns lived in, family, countries visited, etc.  </p>
<p>People like to talk about themselves, especially if it is something they are passionate about.  Such questions allows them to talk about their passion subjects, or duck the question with a simple &#8220;since school&#8221; or &#8220;always were interested.</p>
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